2/2 Such advice also misses that what kids need most is UNCONDITIONAL care: attention, acknowledgment, love that don't have to be earned. But it's easier to miss how attributing dark motives to kids underlies control-based tactics like pos reinf, time-out, & selective ignoring

2/2 Such advice also misses that what kids need most is UNCONDITIONAL care: attention, acknowledgment, love that don't have to be earned. But it's easier to miss how attributing dark motives to kids underlies control-based tactics like pos reinf, time-out, & selective ignoring

— Alfie Kohn (@alfiekohn) April 15, 2019

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April 15, 2019 at 09:54PM